Shared Experiences Lead to Sharing Experiences

CityCrowdThere’s a lot of talk lately around the concept that shared experiences are the future of marketing. When I first heard/read about it though, my mind went a different direction. You see, what these good folks are referring to is sharing your experiences – which is a no-brainer in the social media infatuated world we now live in. Yes, people are going to share their life experiences online with all the various media tools that we have in our pocket and on our desktop. And enabling people to share is a key element in staying relevant from a brand perspective.

But what I was thinking about was actually sharing experiences with others in the context that they are there  – in that moment – sharing the experience with you (offline or online). And that got me thinking about if when you’re part of a group experience, are you more likely to share it on your social sites? Mind you, I don’t have any research to back this up (yet), but I would venture an educated guess that when you’re a part of a group shared experience, it makes a bigger, lasting impression on you than something that you experience all by yourself. It’s the difference between trying to explain all the details yourself and having a group story-telling experience that can live beyond you. Like when you get together with friends and retell those stories from your college days. You feed off of one another. The story comes alive again and again. There is a close bond formed with people who experience something the same time as you do. You each have your own take on it, but it revolves around a core. All because you shared that experience in the moment.

Which brings me to my point: Yes, we want people to share their experiences with others online. But perhaps it starts with creating experiences that they can take part in as a group. Think ambassador programs. Think customized events. Think reunions. Shared experiences lead to sharing experiences. Yes, it’s still up to us as marketers to provide the reason and means to share those life moments. And if we frame it up in this new angle, a whole new world of possibilities open up for us. It’s something to consider.


  • August 30, 2013

    Jeffrey Cufaude

    Yes, shared experiences lead to sharing experiences. I had to relearn this lesson recently when wondering why anyone in their right mind would feel the need to create a launch party just to open ticket sales for a local conference. Duh. Everyone who showed up that night for food, drink, and camaraderie now had a shared story to tell which usually included some mention of the upcoming conference.

  • September 3, 2013

    Spike Jones

    Thanks for the comment, Jeffery. Sometimes we get so lost in the big details, we forget the big picture – which in the case is forgetting about the fundamentals of human behavior. Thanks for stopping by.

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